The impact that having an alienated child has on the rest of the family is at times heartbreaking. My partner is so fed up with me being angry and hurt about my child being absent, it is turning our relationship into a silent and/or angry place to be. Not knowing how to cope with my [...]
Posts from ‘July, 2009’
Feelings are really difficult to cope with around an absent child…
After 5 days of waiting to be told whether Thomas could come and spend some scheduled time with me, I was told he could not come. I can do nothing about this. I have a piece of paper stating I have contact order that states I have contact every other weekend and half the holidays, [...]
MATCHMOTHERS
A fantastic resource, MATCHMOTHERS is a network of mothers who have been separated from their children for a variety of circumstances. I urge you to join, they are so supportive. www.matchmothers.org
Swine flu and parental alienation
Thomas’ father remarried a moroccan woman half his age whilst out of the country with our son (against my wishes). They moved back here and have just had a new baby. Due to the fear of swine flu, Thomas has not been allowed out, he was kept off school for the last week and half [...]
Alienation led to bankruptcy
I was married and had 4 beautiful kids with my ex wife. Due to a progressive marriage breakdown, our relationship failed and my wife asked me for a divorce. Through some sort of fate, I met someone a couple of days before my wife asked me for a divorce. There was no relationship at that [...]
Rebuilding contact with my son 14/07/09
I have had some contact with my son and I feel like a complete person again, a parent, a MUM! Actually, I never stopped being all those things, but it did feel like it many a time. He has, of course, changed, he has grown up and has had major influences from other people, other [...]
