Posts from ‘August, 2009’

I was told via text that I should not call my son’s house again.  I still do though, I will not give up trying to talk to Thomas.  He has a mobile phone that I believe he has lost or had taken away, I send a message every day to Thomas.  I send a text [...]

In the last two days I have been through so many emotional down and downers. The fallout from parental alienation finds it way into every part of my life and the rest of the family too. It was Thomas’s 11th birthday yestersday, I was not allowed to speak to him on the phone.  I sent [...]

In my post yesterday I was looking at me and to some extent, Thomas’s father, I am constantly looking at what belongs to whom in my search for some answers.  I know this sounds obvious but it IS about the parents.  The child/ren are just innocent by standers that happen to ‘catch’ the fall out [...]

I was shopping today and I walked past all the birthday candles and birthday banners, I cried.  I was planning a birthday cake and a trip to the aquarium for Thomas on his 11th birthday.  This will be the third birthday we have spent away from Thomas. I spent some time today thinking about just [...]

I was up last night, I couldn’t sleep again, things always seem worse with lack of sleep and I feel rotten.  I wish I could write some of the things that slipped through my mind at 3 o’ clock this morning but they seem to disappear along the sleepy river,  get carried downstream and wash [...]

I have been in touch with my solicitor.  I feel a sense of relief because he is someone who knows this terrain and I see a small glimpse of hope. Me and my solicitor  last spoke at the beginning of 2009, today he asked me if I had had contact with Thomas since then. I [...]

I got a response from Thomas’s father by text, they read as follows: 1) HE HAS GONE AWAY TO STAY OF HIS OWN CHOICE.  HE WON’T BE HERE TOMORROW.  YOU HAVE BEEN UNDERMINING THIS HOUSE. DOING HIS HEAD IN WITH YOUR PROBLEMS 2) MY BRIEF IS SPROULL SOLICITORS 42 FORE ST BODMIN. IF YOU CANT [...]

I finally managed to get in touch with Thomas today after days of calling all phone numbers I have for him. We had a difficult conversation because I challenged some of his beliefs and views about his dad. Thomas has so much denial about me, he did not want to listen to me, he prefers [...]

My son went away for a week with his father and the extended family.  I only know this because Thomas told me.  His father seems to feel he has no responsibility towards me, to tell me where they were going or to contact me whilst they were away.  I asked Thomas to take his mobile [...]

I asked to have Thomas for some of the summer.  His father has been telling me since the beginning of the summer holidays that they were going away, Morocco, Nottingham and Thomas was going to be sent to summer camp (a joke apparently), none of which came to be.  To me, this looks like a [...]