How Important is the Absent/Alienated Parent in terms of shaping our children’s lives ? I have doing some research about attachment theory (Mary Ainsworth Secure/Avoidant/Anxious Attachment and John Bowlby Attachment and Loss) because I am really interested in how my child may grow up without my presence in his life. The chance to influence and [...]
Posts from ‘May, 2010’
14th May 2010
Hi Thomas, I know you are back in the country now, it must feel really cold here after Morocco. I have hardly slept in the last few days and thoughts of you fill my mind. I am trying to imagine how life has been for you in the last two months. I wonder if you [...]
Trying to understand parental alienation syndrome
If you’re not capable of doing it, can you really understand parental alienation? There have been so many days where I have really tried to understand why Thomas’s father is stopping us having Thomas in our lives. As a counsellor, my profession requires that I use empathy, to come from a place of knowing and [...]


