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Posts from ‘May, 2010’

Parental Alienation and Attachment Theory

How Important is the Absent/Alienated Parent in terms of shaping our children’s lives ? I have doing some research about attachment theory (Mary Ainsworth Secure/Avoidant/Anxious Attachment and John Bowlby Attachment and Loss) because I am really interested in how my child may grow up without my presence in his life.  The chance to influence and [...]

14th May 2010

Hi Thomas, I know you are back in the country now, it must feel really cold here after Morocco.  I have hardly slept in the last few days and thoughts of you fill my mind.  I am trying to imagine how life has been for you in the last two months.  I wonder if you [...]

Trying to understand parental alienation syndrome

If you’re not capable of doing it, can you really understand parental alienation? There have been so many days where I have really tried to understand why Thomas’s father is stopping us having Thomas in our lives.  As a counsellor, my profession requires that I use empathy, to come from a place of knowing and [...]