The sun has been shining for days and the improvement in mood, helped by little chocolate bunnies and an abundance of the most beautiful spring flowers has made it a holiday to remember. We have been at home mostly but we made a pilgrimage to where T used to live yesterday. Having been yanked away [...]
Posts from ‘April, 2011’
Directions hearing – no show
I went to court on Monday for a directions hearing. The Judge wanted to know how the supervised contact was going in order to consider what the next step would be around contact before the final hearing in June. T’s dad was also supposed to supply the court with information about his physical and mental [...]
Alienating Parent is not responding to court request – what now ?
I have not had a very good day so forgive me if this post is tinged with my bad mood. I received a letter from my solicitor today. In it is a copy of a letter from T’s solicitor to his father asking him to comply with the courts request to supply information about him [...]
2nd Contact and Court next week
The contact went ok, everything was so fine, T even commented on the fact that we all got on well. Perhaps it is really because there is nothing I feel I could say to his father other than than being polite and I certainly not say anything on the occasion of contact. Despite everything, it [...]
I want to fight back
I split from my ex husband in 2003 whilst we were living overseas. I have two boys who were aged 8 and 5 at the time. I left my husband for another man due to 11 years of manipulation, alcohol abuse and controlling behaviour. As we were living in the middle east my ex who [...]
2nd contact visit with Alienating Parent
We are gearing up for the next contact visit on Saturday, well actually, to be fair, it is less gearing up rather it is looking like just another day. I know this has a lot to do with me, I don’t feel half as concerned this time as last. I think having got the first [...]
Alienated and Mother’s day
Happy belated Mother’s day! It is the day where no matter what your beliefs about it, it is inevitable that it highlights the fact that if your precious son or daughter is not with you, it can be so very, very hard to get through. I send my heartfelt love to you, I know there [...]
