Posts from ‘July, 2011’

Over the years that I was apart from T, I experienced some very uncomfortable feelings when it came to dealing with schools, for the most part, teachers, the women in the office and even the headmaster or head of year were deeply suspicious of me.  From the first nursery that T attended through to the [...]

There have been times when I have really struggled to understand why people do not believe parental alienation exists after all I had all the evidence, a gap where T should be in our lives.  If a child no longer sees or has contact with their non resident parent and the relationship was previously close [...]

T is a month or so off being 13.  For the past year, I have been so grateful to have him back in my life.  Inevitably along with T’s return comes some problems and difficulties.  I have had the wonderful and sometimes difficult but always a learning and growing experience of bringing up 2 other [...]

There have always been some difficulties for T with my partners children.  I believe that some of these differences were stirred up by T’s dad from the very beginning of our relationship over 8 years ago. I imagine that for most of us in a step situation there is always some jealousy and insecurity, it [...]

A Family’s Heartbreak. A Parent’s Introduction to Parental Alienation.  If you have been the victim of Alienation then you probably won’t need an introduction.  You will however, I am certain, identify with many of the events and issues that Michael went through.  It has some useful information especially about various characteristics that parents who alienate [...]

I am writing a book on my experiences around T and what happened to us.  I am very interested in how other people, social services, legal people, CAFCASS, friends and family reacted to you when they first understood you were not being allowed contact or communication with your child.  Were you believed about what was [...]