Comments for Alienated Parent http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk Raising awareness of Parental Alienation (PA) Sat, 17 Mar 2012 19:55:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 Comment on The Wright Stuff – Can you be a decent father if you lose touch with your children? by julie http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/the-wright-stuff-can-you-be-a-decent-father-if-you-lose-touch-with-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-4331 julie Sat, 17 Mar 2012 19:55:39 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=1094#comment-4331 Hiya, after nearly 10 years of crap, my hubs kids have finally said they dont wish to see him anymore. Contact (court order) has dropped over the last 5yrs to 2 and a half hours a week, ex stating parties, homework, clubs....anything to drop off contact. Finally after trawling the WWW i've come across PAS, and the light has come on. Of course! It has to be this. We can't afford to go back to court again, now what?? Hiya, after nearly 10 years of crap, my hubs kids have finally said they dont wish to see him anymore. Contact (court order) has dropped over the last 5yrs to 2 and a half hours a week, ex stating parties, homework, clubs….anything to drop off contact. Finally after trawling the WWW i’ve come across PAS, and the light has come on. Of course! It has to be this. We can’t afford to go back to court again, now what??

]]> Comment on Abducted Angels – Sean Felton by Sean Felton http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/abducted-angels-sean-felton/comment-page-1/#comment-4317 Sean Felton Sat, 17 Mar 2012 07:30:17 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=1115#comment-4317 HI iv only just come across this and want to thank you so much for taking your time to talk about me & my son you Have my contact details if you would like to help more Kind Regards Sean & Joe HI
iv only just come across this and want to thank you so much for taking your time to talk about me & my son you Have my contact details if you would like to help more

Kind Regards Sean & Joe

]]> Comment on A kidnapped mind – A mother’s heartbreaking story of Parental Alienation Syndrome by JB http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/a-kidnapped-mind-a-mothers-heartbreaking-story-of-parental-alienation-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-4155 JB Tue, 07 Feb 2012 20:28:37 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=250#comment-4155 Hi Clare....what a comfort to hear from you. The pain of living without my children is killing me mentally & physically. I have texted my daughter today, asking for a chance to make things better....but no reply....as usual. Sometimes I just don't know how I can carry on this facade of a life. Not only did I loose the love of my husband but to loose my contact with my children too....how my life has changed. I am a shadow of my former self....& I wish I could & would come back again. I apologise for this outpouring of self-pity....will pull myself together again. I take on board the suggestions of imagining that they have left home earlier than planned...I have tried this previously....but it doesn't help....given that I would have found that natural progression difficult enough, but with the support of my husband, we would have got through it together. I have, to date , had a Christian faith....but am struggling to understand how any God could let this continue....it's a living nightmare. What's your story Clare? How do you cope? Does it make you feel angry when you hear about the deal of father's in the press? What about us mothers? Am sending love. Jo.x Hi Clare….what a comfort to hear from you. The pain of living without my children is killing me mentally & physically. I have texted my daughter today, asking for a chance to make things better….but no reply….as usual. Sometimes I just don’t know how I can carry on this facade of a life. Not only did I loose the love of my husband but to loose my contact with my children too….how my life has changed. I am a shadow of my former self….& I wish I could & would come back again.
I apologise for this outpouring of self-pity….will pull myself together again.
I take on board the suggestions of imagining that they have left home earlier than planned…I have tried this previously….but it doesn’t help….given that I would have found that natural progression difficult enough, but with the support of my husband, we would have got through it together.
I have, to date , had a Christian faith….but am struggling to understand how any God could let this continue….it’s a living nightmare.
What’s your story Clare? How do you cope? Does it make you feel angry when you hear about the deal of father’s in the press? What about us mothers?
Am sending love. Jo.x

]]> Comment on A kidnapped mind – A mother’s heartbreaking story of Parental Alienation Syndrome by Clare http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/a-kidnapped-mind-a-mothers-heartbreaking-story-of-parental-alienation-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-4148 Clare Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:20:11 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=250#comment-4148 Hi Jo, Thank you for your story. My heart goes out to you! There is little that I have experienced in my life that hurt as much, physically or mentally (and there has been much) as not being 'allowed' to have contact/relationship with my child, I understand the pain you feel only too well. I also recognise in what you write, the bewilderment at how your children have become so removed because of what your ex feels, it is just so hard to comprehend why so one who professes to love his children would hurt them by keeping you away, such are his feelings. Dealing with the feelings is so very difficult, where do we learn to cope with this kind of thing? I wrote in order to get the feelings out of me a bit. I found that whilst I harboured those feelings inside me, they rotted the core of me. Coping with these intense feelings is without doubt the most difficult thing to do. One of the things Sarah Hart from Match Mothers says is that it may help to imagine that your children left home earlier than you had planned, trying to change the thinking so that you can bear to live with how you feel. There is no fix for the pain we feel as parents apart from our children but talking about it openly certainly seems to help dispel preconceived ideas and judgements that others seem to hold about us so easily without know the truth. Please email me if you feel the need, just know though that you are not alone. Warm wishes to you, Clare x Hi Jo,
Thank you for your story. My heart goes out to you! There is little that I have experienced in my life that hurt as much, physically or mentally (and there has been much) as not being ‘allowed’ to have contact/relationship with my child, I understand the pain you feel only too well. I also recognise in what you write, the bewilderment at how your children have become so removed because of what your ex feels, it is just so hard to comprehend why so one who professes to love his children would hurt them by keeping you away, such are his feelings. Dealing with the feelings is so very difficult, where do we learn to cope with this kind of thing? I wrote in order to get the feelings out of me a bit. I found that whilst I harboured those feelings inside me, they rotted the core of me. Coping with these intense feelings is without doubt the most difficult thing to do. One of the things Sarah Hart from Match Mothers says is that it may help to imagine that your children left home earlier than you had planned, trying to change the thinking so that you can bear to live with how you feel. There is no fix for the pain we feel as parents apart from our children but talking about it openly certainly seems to help dispel preconceived ideas and judgements that others seem to hold about us so easily without know the truth. Please email me if you feel the need, just know though that you are not alone.

Warm wishes to you, Clare x

]]> Comment on A kidnapped mind – A mother’s heartbreaking story of Parental Alienation Syndrome by JB http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/a-kidnapped-mind-a-mothers-heartbreaking-story-of-parental-alienation-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-4144 JB Sun, 05 Feb 2012 16:47:19 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=250#comment-4144 It is such comfort to read about others out in the ether feeling something similar to me....though tragic that any of us suffer something avoidable...ie. PA. I was married to a GP for 20 years. We have 2 children, a daughter 16 & a son 14. Clearly they are at difficult ages & stages in their young lives.....but the things that I have heard their father say about me in front of me, never mind behind my back, have been inexcusable....eg. telling me how much I've cost him financially, phoning me & telling me to stop threatening him...whilst the children are in earshot. They have been manipulated & brainwashed in a very clever way. I work as a health visitor, hence I have a good understanding of child development & positive parenting. I can not believe that the, once so strong, open & loving relationship that I shared with both my children is now so tattered. My exhusband is clearly so full of anger towards me....I left him for another man after years of feeling no love. He has been with a very close ex friend of mine ever since. I am now on my own...have been for almost 2 years. I am very lonely & low but try as hard as I can to smile & talk myself up...in the vain hope that one day my children will want a relationship with me again...though I find it very difficult. The pain of a mother separated from her children is crucifying. If my story can be of help to anyone going through PA then please get in touch. It is such comfort to read about others out in the ether feeling something similar to me….though tragic that any of us suffer something avoidable…ie. PA.

I was married to a GP for 20 years. We have 2 children, a daughter 16 & a son 14. Clearly they are at difficult ages & stages in their young lives…..but the things that I have heard their father say about me in front of me, never mind behind my back, have been inexcusable….eg. telling me how much I’ve cost him financially, phoning me & telling me to stop threatening him…whilst the children are in earshot. They have been manipulated & brainwashed in a very clever way.

I work as a health visitor, hence I have a good understanding of child development & positive parenting. I can not believe that the, once so strong, open & loving relationship that I shared with both my children is now so tattered.

My exhusband is clearly so full of anger towards me….I left him for another man after years of feeling no love. He has been with a very close ex friend of mine ever since. I am now on my own…have been for almost 2 years. I am very lonely & low but try as hard as I can to smile & talk myself up…in the vain hope that one day my children will want a relationship with me again…though I find it very difficult. The pain of a mother separated from her children is crucifying.

If my story can be of help to anyone going through PA then please get in touch.

]]> Comment on The Wright Stuff – Can you be a decent father if you lose touch with your children? by david a http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/the-wright-stuff-can-you-be-a-decent-father-if-you-lose-touch-with-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-3270 david a Mon, 10 Oct 2011 01:48:38 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=1094#comment-3270 Here is my personal experience with Parental Alienation. Warning, strong language. I'd be interested in any feedback. I hope this video helps other people in similar situations. Thanks. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJDsruc-xxg Here is my personal experience with Parental Alienation. Warning, strong language. I’d be interested in any feedback. I hope this video helps other people in similar situations. Thanks.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJDsruc-xxg

]]> Comment on Why People don’t believe that Parental Alienation exists by jon adkins http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/why-people-dont-believe-that-parental-alienation-exists/comment-page-1/#comment-3084 jon adkins Wed, 07 Sep 2011 23:28:55 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=1073#comment-3084 Parental alienation syndrome is real. Here are some graphic scenes from my own marriage and divorce revealing the malignant personality traits that so often underlie parental alienation, but are so often missed by the so-called professionals and the family courts. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPpm4Gyi1jk Parental alienation syndrome is real. Here are some graphic scenes from my own marriage and divorce revealing the malignant personality traits that so often underlie parental alienation, but are so often missed by the so-called professionals and the family courts.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPpm4Gyi1jk

]]> Comment on Parental Alienation Symptoms checklist by USA – The fragmented family: Parental Alienation » Operation Fatherhood http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/parental-alienation-symptoms/comment-page-1/#comment-2945 USA – The fragmented family: Parental Alienation » Operation Fatherhood Sat, 13 Aug 2011 18:15:39 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=239#comment-2945 [...] If you think Parental Alienation is being directed at you but are not sure, you can check the Parental Alienation symptom checklist. [...] [...] If you think Parental Alienation is being directed at you but are not sure, you can check the Parental Alienation symptom checklist. [...]

]]> Comment on Our story by USA – The fragmented family: Parental Alienation » Operation Fatherhood http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/our-story/comment-page-1/#comment-2944 USA – The fragmented family: Parental Alienation » Operation Fatherhood Sat, 13 Aug 2011 18:15:22 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?page_id=20#comment-2944 [...] Winsor hosts the website ‘Alienated Parent’. She shared her story with [...] [...] Winsor hosts the website ‘Alienated Parent’. She shared her story with [...]

]]> Comment on What happened when you told others about your PA experiences? by Mini http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/what-happene-when-you-told-others-about-your-pa-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-2692 Mini Mon, 11 Jul 2011 13:31:44 +0000 http://www.alienatedparent.org.uk/?p=1056#comment-2692 i have 2 children and i for the last one year have lost both my children. my ex manuipilated the children when they were with me and when i went for a hysteractomy operation my ex took my daughter to the police station to accuse me of abuse and i think the way the police, the social worker and the legal team and friends and family treated me and still treat me is appauling. though no evidence was found on abuse,i was also mistreated at work due to this. But Noone is willing to listen to my story. i also went to see solicitors and saw 6 different ones and 2 of them i paid them for the consultation and though i could not afford it i took a loan to do this as my kids are so important to me. they are my world. my world has torn apart. if you wish to talk about this issue. you can contact me. i hope to help you. i have 2 children and i for the last one year have lost both my children. my ex manuipilated the children when they were with me and when i went for a hysteractomy operation my ex took my daughter to the police station to accuse me of abuse and i think the way the police, the social worker and the legal team and friends and family treated me and still treat me is appauling. though no evidence was found on abuse,i was also mistreated at work due to this. But Noone is willing to listen to my story. i also went to see solicitors and saw 6 different ones and 2 of them i paid them for the consultation and though i could not afford it i took a loan to do this as my kids are so important to me. they are my world. my world has torn apart. if you wish to talk about this issue. you can contact me. i hope to help you.

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